Often, people write about marginalized groups of people, in ways that make it clear that they’re assuming that we don’t read what they say.
So – whenever you’re writing about a group of people, assume that some members of that group are listening.
Disabled folks, people of all races and ethnic groups, people of all or no religion, women, men, trans* people, poor people, rich people, mothers, fathers, children, teenagers, lots of other examples…
When you speak or write publicly, everyone in every group might be listening. Assume they are. It will make your work better.