Right, I have been in situations like that. I guess I’m just reacting because being polite has sometimes kept me in dangerous situations. I guess it’s up to each person, but you shouldn’t have to be.
Yes, absolutely. It’s important to be rude sometimes.
It’s just that there are tools besides rudeness that work better for managing some situations some of the time. And it can be worth learning to use them.
But being able to be rude as-needed is really important too.